If you’re a man who enjoys the company of senior women, can dance, and likes to be of service to others, you’re in luck! Older women vastly outnumber their male counterparts on the dance floor, and people who organize cruises and parties for seniors are on the lookout for dance partners for their guests.
Sometimes you can get paid for your services. Sometimes you get a free cruise, or free admission to a party, or a vastly reduced ticket price to an expensive cruise. In all cases you get to make a lot of women happy.
The downside is you probably will spend a lot of time dancing with unskilled dancers. This is definitely a personality issue and is not a problem for everyone.
A lot of men, regardless of their own skill level, love to dance with women who don’t know the first thing about how to follow. There is a lot to be said for the pleasure of lighting up a woman who rarely if ever gets to dance. You get to be a hero. She feels like a dancer and experiences tremendous joy at the simplest little turn. Your skill at finding her skill level, finding steps she can follow easily and enjoy, without making her feel inept, is rewarded by her immense joy.
The other downside is that if you meet someone with whom you’d like to pursue a relationship, you’re out of luck. Showing preference for one woman is always against the rules.
But if the perks appeal to you, and you can dance, go for it. There will always be a need for you. And if it really appeals to you, and you can’t dance, what better reason than this to learn?
by LaurieAnn Lepoff
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